Part 1: Mortgage Difficulties ask yourself a difficult question
August 1, 2011 3 Comments
Many things can happen in our lives through no fault of their own…. e.g. redundancy, illness, divorce, even death of a loved one which can result in us experiencing financial difficulties. You may need a short amount of time to sort out your situation and need some support to enable you to manage your finances and get your life back on track.
An estimated 40,000 home owners will have their properties repossessed in 2011 but this is not the true picture of the number of people who are finding it difficult to pay their mortgage. In the last 3 months alone the figure stood at 166,000.
Before you decide on what choices you have with regards to your home I think you need to ask yourself some questions first?
- Is my situation short term or have I been having difficulties for a long time now and I can’t see an end to them?
- Do I want to carry on struggling or do I want a fresh start?
- Do I want to keep my home at all costs and am prepared to fight for it?
If you are not sure if you are in long term difficulties then answer these following questions:-
1. Have you taken further loans to pay off your debts?
2. Do you find yourself paying late fees and bank charges?
3. Are you scared of opening letters in case they are bills and more demands?
4. Do you get final demands for your utility bills?
5. Have you maxed out on your credit cards?
6. Do you borrow money from family and friends?
7. Are you being hassled by creditors?
8. Do you have sleepless nights or find yourself drinking to forget your worries?
9. Are you constantly thinking about money and how you are going to pay your next bill?
10. Do you borrow from Peter to pay Paul?
If you answered YES to more than 5 of the above questions you maybe experiencing long term debt problems.
Yes you do have choices but if your situation is not going to change you have to think about the impact any decision you make will have on the long term outcome. As I am sure you know being in difficulties can be stressful and cause many different types of reactions from sleepless nights, drinking more alcohol, taking medication, being depression to even having a nervous breakdown.
By taking a short term decision on your payments are you just putting these feelings on hold?
Any choice you take that reduces your monthly payments will have long term effects in that you will need to pay the money back at some stage. This is a great decision if you know your situation is more than likely going to be short term and you will be able to increase your payments some time in the next year or so. We will look at the different options you have in part two.
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